Once you’re comfortable with the professionalism of a company, it’s time to
evaluate the professionalism of the specific DJ you’ll be working with. Here
are some things to look for:
‣ Appearance and demeanor. Is the DJ dressed appropriately for your
meeting, and does his overall “style” seem to fit with your expectations
for your wedding? Is he articulate? Is he confident? Does he come
across as accommodating, personable, and someone who can
maintain his composure throughout your wedding, even if something
unexpected were to happen?
‣ Performing style. The company should have already suggested a
suitable DJ based on your stated preferences, but the DJ himself
should be able to explain his general performing style, in his own
words. Is he more of an entertainer and motivator, or more
unobtrusive and low-key? Does this match what you’re seeking?
While any good DJ should have some flexibility in his approach, a
“high-energy” DJ will never be able to keep things truly understated,
and the reverse is also true.
‣ Experience and knowledge. A DJ should, upon request, provide you
with information on his performing experience. This may include
providing references, if you happen to ask. He should also give you a
sense that he is knowledgeable about wedding protocols and the
music you enjoy.
‣ Relationship to the company. It’s worth asking the DJ how long he’s
been with the company, and how you can be sure of his presence at your wedding. (Does he go pale and start to stammer when you ask
about this? Bad sign!)
‣ Willingness to respect your wishes. The DJ’s listening skills will tell
you a lot about how receptive he’ll be to your ideas and preferences.
A DJ who’s solely focused on telling you about himself, or bragging
about his music knowledge and equipment clearly isn’t going to be
open to what you, the client, want. Unfortunately, there are a lot of
DJs who are completely set in their ways, or who view every event as
their own private nightclub, and accommodating their clients’
individuality is of no importance whatsoever. If the DJ comes across
as skeptical of your ideas, or is anything less than completely
interested and enthusiastic, you should strongly consider looking
elsewhere.
Finally, be mindful of the overall vibe you get from the DJ. Remember, this
individual will, for all intents and purposes, be the “host” of your reception –
he’s responsible not only for the music and the announcements, but for the
overall flow of the event. Does he strike you as someone you want to work
with throughout your planning to create that perfect playlist? Do you have
complete confidence in his ability to execute your plans? Does he seem
honest, genuine, positive, and someone you want to have around you
throughout this most important day? If the answer to all of those questions
is yes, and you feel good about the company that’s backing him, you’ve
probably found the right DJ for you.
